Tuesday, May 26, 2009

Prop 8 Stands, But We're Still Married...

The California State Supreme Court ruled this morning that Prop 8 (the voter approved initiative that banned gay marriage) would stand, but that the 18,000+ couples that got married before the initiative took effect would stay married. While this news is disappointing, it's at least a relief to our family, that I'm spared explaining to our almost 4 year old daughter why a court could take away our marriage.

This morning while we were getting ready for school, Lauren was listening to her Story Reader, which was reading a Disney Princess book to her. While she was listening, I asked her if she wanted to get married when she was bigger, like the princess in the story. Her response was "We already got married, I don't need to get married again". Yes, we told her we were getting married, and she was a large part of our wedding, so she considers our family "married". I'll wait till she's older before I explain the distinction to her. For now, I'm content that we're still a family and we're still "married".

Wednesday, May 20, 2009

Taxable Fringe Benefit

Most people aren't aware of this, so I thought I'd do a little write up on one of the issues that same-sex partners face with regards to health care. I work in California for a public company, which means they have to provide families like mine with the option of buying health insurance for the whole family. That means like other married opposite sex partner families, I can buy health insurance for my partner and for our daughter. California has rights for same-sex couples to make this possible.

The issue comes about because the federal government doesn't recognize same-sex partners. Because of this, when a company, like mine, contributes towards the payment of health insurance to cover my partner, it becomes a taxable fringe benefit. It gets even worse if we decide to cover my daughter under the same policy. Why is that? Her coverage no longer gets considered in the taxable fringe benefit scenario.

Let me explain this with an example. Say my company pays $300 per month for my health insurance. For me to add my daughter, the company would then pay $500 for what's called a family plan. Because she's my daughter, there's no taxable fringe benefit involved (as both the federal and state governments recognize your child as yours). But if I were to add my husband, the company would still pay $500 per month, as there's no difference between covering 1 family member or many. But the effect on my taxes is significant. The entire amount between $500 and $300 (the $200 difference) is computed as a taxable fringe benefit on my paystub. There's no allowance for the fact my daughter is also paid under this difference. What's the actual impact to the bottom line? The extra $200 shows up as extra pay, so my gross income goes up by the $200 per month, increasing the amount I owe in taxes.

Because of this discrepancy we've chosen for me to cover just my daughter and myself under my health plan, and for my husband to pay for his own because the taxable fringe benefit actually costs us more in taxes than it would for him to buy his own insurance. This is added cost over what any opposite sex partner family would have to pay for their health insurance.

If that's not enough, it gets even worse. My company uses a system called ClearBenefits, which works with ADP, a national payroll processing company. The two companies together haven't figured out how to handle domestic partnerships or same-sex marriages. Because I'm listed as having a domestic partnership/same-sex marriage, this information is automatically transferred from ClearBenefits to ADP. And because I purchase health insurance on a family plan for my daughter (but not my husband) this information (that I'm in a domestic partnership) also gets automatically transferred between ClearBenefits and ADP. The side effect of this is that ADP kept adding taxable fringe benefit (because of the domestic partnership) on my health insurance on my pay check, even though they weren't supposed to (since we weren't getting insurance for my husband, just my daughter).

I'd complain every paycheck and they'd remove it, and then it'd show up again, and I'd have to complain again. This has happened two years in a row (after each benefit selection period), and it's happened for 4 months in a row. I think this paycheck for the most recent period was one of the first I didn't have an issue, so I'm keeping my fingers crossed. If you fall into this specific scenario I'm talking about, take a close look on your paystub and make sure you don't have TFB.